I am telling you these things because not trusting you does not mean I will withhold information that I believe is important for you to have. You have clearly spoken with him since I asked his input regarding us, and I would bet my life that he spoke to you of me.
I will preface this by saying I truly do not think he is a bad person. I believe there is a good man in him that I have not been privileged with meeting.
However, my experience thus far has been him consistently taking everything I say or do and twisting it into something awful. He only heard what he wanted to hear, and has used it all to paint me as a sick, horrible person. I have no doubt that if he's said such things about me to my face, that he's said things about me behind my back.
Again, I do not think he is a bad person. I think he truly believes he is helping. I just don't believe he was ever truly helping me. To him I am some crazy, stuck-up bitch who vilifies sweet, helpless little girls. To him, I am a monster he needs to protect others from.
Fine. I can accept this.
I had just hoped to find a way to make things work between us that was fair.
Whatever your relationship with him, please do not let my words impact it negatively. I don't want that at all. If he is good to you, I'm glad. You are a better person than me. I know you must be good for him, and he deserves good things to help him heal.
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I will preface this by saying I truly do not think he is a bad person. I believe there is a good man in him that I have not been privileged with meeting.
However, my experience thus far has been him consistently taking everything I say or do and twisting it into something awful. He only heard what he wanted to hear, and has used it all to paint me as a sick, horrible person. I have no doubt that if he's said such things about me to my face, that he's said things about me behind my back.
Again, I do not think he is a bad person. I think he truly believes he is helping. I just don't believe he was ever truly helping me. To him I am some crazy, stuck-up bitch who vilifies sweet, helpless little girls. To him, I am a monster he needs to protect others from.
Fine. I can accept this.
I had just hoped to find a way to make things work between us that was fair.
Whatever your relationship with him, please do not let my words impact it negatively. I don't want that at all. If he is good to you, I'm glad. You are a better person than me. I know you must be good for him, and he deserves good things to help him heal.