I deserve it, for hurting him. I had just wanted to keep him safe.
You haven't hurt me. You remind me of things that hurt me in the past, but it is no fault of yours. I am hoping to resolve this soon.
I apologize for my outburst. Things have been stressful as of late, and I had not expected to feel so betrayed. It caught me by surprise and I reacted inappropriately.
However this decision is selfish, as it is about my desire to keep him safe and does not take into account what he may want. My fears should not outweigh his agency, no matter how well founded they may be.
I am aware. Fortunately the unpleasant memories only contribute to my distrust, not the rest.
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Or, tell me how I have hurt you!
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You haven't hurt me. You remind me of things that hurt me in the past, but it is no fault of yours. I am hoping to resolve this soon.
I apologize for my outburst. Things have been stressful as of late, and I had not expected to feel so betrayed. It caught me by surprise and I reacted inappropriately.
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I am not those things. You are projecting on me.
You need to speak with someone who you trust.
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However this decision is selfish, as it is about my desire to keep him safe and does not take into account what he may want. My fears should not outweigh his agency, no matter how well founded they may be.
I am aware. Fortunately the unpleasant memories only contribute to my distrust, not the rest.
I will figure it out, thank you.
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